Fresh Ideas: A Three-Pew Commitment – by Diana Davis

Diana Davis

A tattoo artist, a CEO, and a homeless guy walk into your church’s worship service –

Davis

No, that’s not the first line of a joke. It could become a weekly reality!

Thousands of Southern Baptist churches will invite their entire community to church by planning “attractional” events during this spring’s GPS emphasis. When those strangers come to church on Sunday, will they be warmly welcomed?

The answer is spelled with just three letters: Y.O.U. You – the normal Christian person sitting in the pew nearby. When you offer a sincere welcome, it makes a huge – maybe even eternal – difference. Try this strategy:

 

? Make a commitment. Study your church layout. Select a specific area, such as a section of seats or three pews nearest you, and commit to God you’ll welcome everyone who sits there.

? Say a silent prayer as you enter church every Sunday. Ask God to direct you and give you boldness to show His love.

? Just say “hello.” Speak to each person, watching for ways to encourage them. A simple “Hi, Teresa” can mean the world, even to regular attenders.

? Keep an index card in your Bible to take notes. People often sit in the same general area each week. You’ll soon be calling them by name. This also makes it easier to notice guests.

? Intentionally watch for visitors. Move to sit beside or in front of him. Introduce yourself and repeat his name in conversation. Jot it on your index card, and call him by name after worship.

? Introduce the guest to two other people before she leaves. For example, help a young mother meet another mom, then escort her to meet the pastor.

? Offer a “next step.” Invite the guest to your small group, Bible study or an upcoming event. Write down details for her.

? Offer friendship. Give your personal contact info to the guest. Meet him for coffee this week or invite him to join you for lunch today. Be sure you invite him back for worship next week.

 

When newcomers come to your church, will they be shunned or unconditionally welcomed? The answer is in your hands. Will you make a three-pew commitment today?

A drug dealer, a mom with three whiney children, and a military officer walk into your church –

 

– Davis is a columnist, speaker, and author of “Deacon Wives” and “Fresh Ideas for Women’s Ministry” (B&H Publishing). Read more at www.keeponshining.com.