The past few years have opened my eyes to so many of the non-medical things involved in the wellbeing of my patients and family members. Our world is awash in assorted forms and documents that are often, if not absolutely necessary, certainly very helpful when loved ones become sick or injured, and especially near the end of life.
When my father passed away, it was incredible how beneficial it was to have not only his death certificate, but his DD-214, which certifies that one was officially discharged from the armed forces. The DD-214 was critical to helping my mother get extra VA benefits.
Everyone should try to have a designated power of attorney. There are two types. The first is a “medical power of attorney,” which empowers someone to make healthcare decisions when one loses capacity. The second is a “durable power of attorney,” which empowers a designated person to make financial decisions in the same situation.
They’re both helpful. But also easy to misplace. All such documents should, in my opinion, be scanned into a computer or phone and also placed in a safe or safe-deposit box. The location of these should be known to those who will eventually be involved.
Estate planning documents should also be readily available. But then, so should living wills, insurance forms, insurance cards, titles for houses and cars, and all the rest.
Financial health and fitness are part and parcel to healthcare, particularly as we age. So talk to a lawyer and keep everything where needed. Your family will thank you.