Extended Family and a Church Called Refuge

 Josh and Beth Glymph are different, but not in the way people might expect.

It’s true, their family photos are eclectic and multi-colored. “That’s because we have two biological children,” Josh says, “and we also have three adopted children.”

Gospel preaching churches in the Jacksonville, Fla., community of Ortega were few and far between. But in 2020, NAMB missionary Josh Glymph planted Refuge Church. Now, more than 200 people show up on Sunday mornings, dozens of new believers are being baptized, and a planter is being sent out to start another new church in a nearby community. (NAMB photo by Ben Rollins)

And it’s also true that four years ago, they planted a church. “We were sent out to do that,” Josh says, “simply because there are people all over who aren’t hearing the gospel.”

A fostering and adoptive family is not especially unique. And a church-planting family is not especially unique. What makes Josh and Beth Glymph so uncommon is this: Four years ago, God told them to simultaneously do the two hardest things they’d ever done. “Foster care and church planting,” says Beth. “I thought there was no way He’d ask us to do both at the same time. But that’s just what He did.”

The Glymphs would come to learn that God had His reasons.

In 2019, Josh Glymph was serving on staff at Fruit Cove Baptist Church in Jacksonville, Fla. He was content, and yet strangely restless.

“I’d been there 10 years, and we loved it,” he says. “But God just began to do something in our hearts that made us say, ‘All right, Lord, what’s next?’”

The leaders at Fruit Cove had a ready answer for that “What’s next?” question — Ortega.

“Ortega was a community in Jacksonville that was very unreached,” Josh says. “You’ve got hipsters, you’ve got military, you have wealthy people, and then you also have a lower socioeconomic area. It really is a melting pot. And, there were a handful of churches in the area, but some of them were dying, and some others had faded into no longer being what you’d call Christian — and all of us at Fruit Cove saw the need and got really excited about what the Lord might do if we planted a church there.”

In 2020, God called Josh and Beth Glymph to do the two hardest things they had ever done: foster care and church planting. When Refuge Church was planted, Beth recognized God’s perfect timing. “We didn’t set out to plant a church for foster and adoptive families,” she says. “The Lord just did it. And now that it’s happened, we get to see Him working right in front of our eyes.” (NAMB photo by Ben Rollins)

When Fruit Cove decided to send the Glymphs to Ortega to plant a church, Josh and Beth were excited. And stressed. The timing felt overwhelming, especially to Beth, because the call to plant came at the same time their family of five was expanding to a family of seven.

“We had actually just set out on our foster care journey, and some of our kids had special needs,” she says. “Foster care is so hard because anytime a child is removed from their biological family, there’s deep suffering that comes with that — and as a foster parent, you’re asked to step into that suffering with them. I knew the Lord was asking us to plant this church and to foster, but the timing of it all was just hard for me to accept.”

As Josh and Beth began to meet, then invite and then gather people together in Ortega, God’s grand plan for what would become Refuge Church began to take shape. The Glymphs discovered that Ortega, just like almost every other community, had families that were fostering and adopting. Josh and Beth’s biggest and most visible concern became Refuge Church’s biggest draw.

“People here who were fostering and adopting said, ‘Hey, there’s a family that’s doing what we’re doing. That pastor’s family looks just like ours,’” Josh says. “And that’s how the Lord began to build this church.”

When Refuge Church launched in 2020, one of the first things they did was start a ministry called Seek Refuge. Seek Refuge provides just about everything a fostering or adoptive family in Ortega might need: diapers, car seats, baby toys, and even date night childcare.

“Fostering and adoptive families found out that here’s a pastor and a family who’s joining them in the fight,” Josh says. “They saw that, and they came here to get a need met, and through that we built relationships. Next thing we know, they’re in our church on a Sunday.”

Josh and Beth Glymph know what it’s like to welcome children into your home because in addition to their two biological children, they have three adopted children — two of whom were adopted out of foster care. Their ministry, called Seek Refuge, provides diapers, baby formula and other necessities for fostering and adoptive families. (NAMB photo by Ben Rollins)

A significant percentage of the more than 200 people who now attend Refuge Church are from fostering or adoptive families. The Glymphs never expected to plant a church like this, but now that they’ve done so, they recognize how God had this whole thing planned out from the very beginning.

“We didn’t set out to plant a church for foster and adoptive families,” says Beth. “The Lord just did it. And now that it’s happened, we get to see Him working right in front of our eyes.”

Southern Baptists’ gifts to the Annie Armstrong Easter Offering helped the Glymphs get Refuge Church up and running. Now in Ortega, where not too long ago churches were few and far between, Josh and Beth are making Jesus known.

“I think about the number of children who come to our church who, if families didn’t say yes to foster care and adoption, those children would never hear about Jesus,” says Josh. “I believe there’s no greater opportunity than this to share the gospel.”

The Annie Armstrong Easter Offering provides half of NAMB’s annual budget, and 100 percent of the proceeds go to the field. The offering is used for training, support and care for missionaries, like Josh and Beth Glymph, and for evangelism resources.

— Tony Hudson writes for the North American Mission Board.